cara cara menuju sukses by moi...

I wanna b successful in life, work, n everything... i think everybody in the right mind wants to b success too... tapi cara2 orang pengen sukses itu beda2, ada yg baik n pantas utk ditiru meaning that they r driven n determined, ada juga yg kotor, n lastly the ones who just lucky meaning that they r just inherit it. Me???? i'm the one that's rada2 driven n determined.... these are the 4 steps i follow in order for me to b successful n *CAUTION DO NOT ATTEMPT IT IF U DO NOT HAVE A CLEAR CONSENSUS OF THE IMPLICATION* :

1. Realize ur dream n capability. jadi intinya jangan muluk2 deh... gw siey maunya cuman pengen hidup bahagia, dapet S3, punya suami mapan, anak2 ciamik, karir memuaskan. itu gak muluk2 loh soalnya according to Bung Karno, one of the greatest men ever alive in this world, kejarlah cita2mu setinggi langit, means that kalo belum setinggi langit jangan bilang cita2/ dreams that's just norms.... n my capabilities to reach those dreams are not super but i'll try so hard n i think u can only try so much n at the end u'll find what u want. paraphrase from the bible kalo kita keep knocking on the door, pintu akan di bukakan...

2. Berdoa deh.... i grew up in a christian familly, pentacostal to b exact. nah kita orang pantekosta hidup dari iman... as cheesy as it may sound but it works , dont u see all those pendeta2 they have no jobs but they r doing find. orang pantekosta ituh diajarin utk minta semuanya ke Tuhan spy dibukakan jalan. emang siey gak smuanya dikasih worst only handful of the wishes that actually have been granted. tapi gw diajarin di skolah minggu kalo gak dikasih tandanya Tuhan punya rencana yg jauh lebih indah lagi... can u imagine better things than those i mentioned in #1???? i guess u don't cus i don't either but i'm liking it...hehehe 

3. usaha dikit2lah... b/c Tuhan gak bakal ngasih gitu ajah... if He does that means all the priests would b billionaire n Bill Gates, he must have been praying a lot...

4. just WAIT... ini yg paling susah n usually takes the longest. n in this step, ppl usually give up. emang sih susah buat sabar tapi gimana dong... our lives are not instantly given to us, our parents have to conceive us n they have to wait until exist, jadi dari awal kita udah diajar untuk nunggu... so we re too far ahead to give up in this step.

i know there are nothing extra special in those steps but it works for me... n the result well let's say vary... tapi kalo result in failure, i don't get mad cus belum rejeki n means that i need to go back to step 2... kurang kali "jampi2nya"hehehehehe.... anyways just wanna share my thoughts

-M-